And the saga begins...
Our relationship began with Jesus, literally and artistically! We got to know each other doing a production of "The Cotton Patch Gospel" in which I played Jesus!
Here we are at Christmas in 2004, we'd been "long-distance dating" for about a semseter at this point. After 4 days of officially dating, I moved 12 hours away to grad school. It was a very long 10 months!
2005 was the first Christmas we spent together! We decided that since we were engaged, we really wanted to be together on Christmas morning. Sidonie spent her first Christmas morning away from home, and we were happy to introduce her to all our Christmas morning traditions - including the Christmas morning picture! ;)
This was the first time that Sidonie was able to come visit me in VA (where I was going to grad school.) She rode up with my parents to see my last production of my first year: "Guys and Dolls" Here we are laughing at something in my sunroom - the best part of that house...
The next fall, after Sidonie had graduated FSU, she decided to look for a job in VA so we wouldn't be long distance any more! (Thanks, Babe!) She found one and moved up! Sidonie's Bestie, Julie May, came up to VA for a visit a couple months after she moved. We had lots of fun on the swings outside Sidonie's house. Good times!
We ended up using this photo on the bookmarks that one of my childhood friend's Mom made us as a gift to use as wedding favors!
Skip forward 6 months or so...We had a wonderful "Pre-wedding reception" at my parent's house in Tallahassee for all the folks who couldn't make it down to Miami for the big event! It was loads of fun! :D
One of the most important parts of the ceremony (after the actual union bit and the communion, of course) was when our parents all prayed a prayer of blessing over us! It was beautiful! Thanks guys.
The grannies were hot (with reason) so we decided to take our granny pic sitting down. Nana thought Sidonie was giving the flowers to her! ;) So cute, aren't they?
After we got engaged, literally the FIRST call we made in wedding prep was to our friend Kenneth Pietrobono - a brilliant photographer - to book him for the event!
Sidonie's childhood friend, Ms. Sullivan, as she's known to her students ;) was terrific as our wedding stage manager!!!
We had a wonderful honeymoon in Jamaica! It was my first time there, and we soaked up lots of sun and ate plenty of YUMMY Jamaican food!
Just after we got back to VA from Jamaica, Sidonie and I worked on a musical theatre summer camp together hosted by my grad school. We did a production of "Once On This Island" which I costumed (with my friend Heidi) and Sidonie music directed! Sidonie also worked as a guest artist playing Asaka. What a fun experience pouring into the lives of all these very talented youngsters!
During the "Once on This Island" run, I directed a one act play called "Craving" (by Heather Hargrave-Roberts) And Sidonie had an occasion to wear her wedding dress again - she played Esther! Here I am with my "Craving" cast - they were terrific!
At the beginning of my last year in Grad School, I got to play Lloyd Dalles in Noises Off for my Thesis Role! It was a blast, and, as you can see, it was set in the good ol' 80s!
Our friends Anna and Justin threw a Halloween party and we went as Kip and Lafawnduh! We were a smash hit! We've come up with several other killer costumes since then, but I think these were our all time best!
On our way down to Miami, we stopped at a fast food restaurant and met our first "nephew" from the Brannon Family - Iain!
During Thanksgiving break, Cousin Deb (yes, that's what we really call her - she likes it ;) took family portraits for us! Woohoo!
My Mom graciously (and tearfully) parted with many of my childhood ornaments and Christmas decorations for us to use on our tree! (Thanks Ma! ;)
We also went out for a nice relaxing dinner with some friends at a Mexican restaurant just before we left for home that Christmas!
Our first children, Fred and Ginger, the Ferrets, came to live with us at Christmas in 2006 - we soon found they had very strange sleeping habits!
In early 2007, we hosted an Oscar party at our apartment in VA Beach - it was loads of fun, complete with Sidonie's fully sequined Oscar-gold dress ;) Fun memories of times with good friends who now live many, many miles away!
We recorded our first song together in 2007, with the help of the very talented and extremely resourceful Jimmy Smithson!
For my birthday, we went on a very fun trip to Busch Gardens in VA and listened to a new cast recording on the way - The Scarlet Pimpernel (which I would be fight directing later that year!)
We got someone to take our picture on the kiddy-roller-coaster (it turned out not to be so "kiddy!")
We got to celebrate our first anniversary with the wedding of our dear friends, Lindsey and Todd. We also decided to go on a date when we got down to FL - here we are all dolled up!
We decided to take the family portrait a bit randomly since we had so many family members at my parent's at the same time! My immediate family + my Aunt, Uncle, 2 Cousins and one of their wives (and dog) + Sidonie's Mom and brother! Lots of fun!
In the summer of 2007 Sidonie and I got to work together to plan, teach, and direct a summer musical theatre camp for kids! It was an awesome experience, and we've even found out that several of those kids have gone on to continue a pursuit of musical theatre! We couldn't be happier!
Since we were in town to direct the musical theatre camp, and for me to fight direct "The Scarlet Pimpernel," we decided to audition for the show as well! :D
On our way to Orlando for Sidonie to begin grad school at UCF, we stopped off to meet our new "nephew," Joshua (son of my "sister" Chasity)! He was such a smiley, sweet baby!
When we got to UCF, Sidonie landed her first straight theatre lead! She played (brilliantly, I might add) the lead in August Wilson's "The Piano Lesson!" I was so proud of her!
During 2007, Sidonie and I spent quite a lot of time auditioning for good ol' Walt. Here is a photo to attest to the hours we spent on the floor of the audition building!
We decided that we wanted to host family Thanksgiving at our house for the first time - it was WONDERFUL!
Just after Thanksgiving, we moved into our first house! We had a very cool place in E Orlando, and we had a blast decorating it together! (I'll spare you the photos ;)
Right before Christmas break 2007, we went with Sidonie's UCF colleagues to one of the Disney Resort restaurants. It was DELICIOUS! AND, we had a staff member personally walk the Vegans among us down the buffet letting us know what was Vegan-friendly! What a yummy treat!
For Christmas 2007 my Hunny got me the most thoughtful of gifts ;) I had an entirely Sweeny Todd-themed gift! I even got to see the Broadway tour of the show when we got to Miami!!!
Early Spring 2008 brought performances of "The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe" where I got to play Mr. Tumnus - so much fun - and make lots of great friends!
For my birthday, Sidonie got free tickets for us to go to Universal Studios (from a friend we sang with at church - Thanks Todd!)
Speaking of Disney, not only were we able to go for free, but we were able to bring some folks along with us! Here's Sid with my little cousin, Megan on her first trip to Epcot!
We were also able to bring our friends Brit and Joshua. Sidonie met Brit at UCF, and we had lots of fun together during our time in Orlando!
We got to take our good friends Desiree and Josh (who had never been to Disney and were on their honeymoon at a beach house not too far away) as well! It was great because we hadn't been able to go to the wedding! What a blessing that Disney job was!
During our time in Orlando, I taught and designed for several colleges in the area. Here is one of my Costume Design classes with their final project - an apron. Can you pick out the student who didn't come to class very often?
We had an amazing time loving on a lot of kids who were from fatherless homes of drug addicted mothers (who most likely sold themselves to afford their addictions.)
This little boy, Jeffrey, wouldn't let go of me after I "rescued" him from a tarantula (the first one Sidonie and I'd ever seen!) We wanted to take him home with us!
Our church sent backpacks for all the children with lots of necessities as well as some toys and candy. This little girl was absolutely enraptured by her Dora doll. This was a wonderful experience for us to both grow together, closer to our friends who also went on the trip, and most importantly, to minister the Lord's Love to these hurting young ones!
Just after we got back from the D.R., Sidonie left for a study trip to beautiful Bavaria! Not only did she have a great time and learn a lot, but she was also invited to attend Joop van Den Ende Academy in Hamburg, and, after praying about it, we decided to make the move to Germany. One great adventure led to an even greater one!
Sidonie actually had her birthday in Bavaria, but I had a surprise party for her with our Orlando friends when she got back. It was also a bit of a good-bye party as we only had 2 weeks from Sidonie's return to the States to our Big Move!
Upon our arrival in Germany (with our 10 bags in tow!) we met Afsaneh (af-sahn-uh), our wonderfully loving host (who, by the way, offered to host complete strangers in her home because we are friends with someone who met one of Afsaneh's friends at a ministry conference!) Communicating with Afsaneh was interesting because our German skills were MINUSCULE and her's are not much better. We learned a few Persian words along the way!
We shared a twin bed in Afsaneh's home for the first month of our life in Germany. During this time Sidonie was starting school (in a, then, foreign language) and I was daily pounding the streets looking for a job!
About two weeks after we arrived, Afsaneh managed to communicate to us that we were invited to the wedding of some good friends of her daughter.
This was our first Afghan wedding, and we found that dancing was compulsory (even for folks who didn't know what they were doing!) We had a blast, and when we left at 2 AM the bride said it was too bad we had to leave so early! They really do throw a party :D
About a month after we arrived, Afsaneh had planned some re-modeling in the room where we were staying, so we had to find another accommodation, and quickly! Some other friends from church set it up for us to stay in the church until we could find an open apartment. We only stayed there for one night before some other friends from church said that they had an apartment that they were looking for tenants for as they had just gotten married!
Our apartment in Glinde (a suburb of Hamburg) was a perfect place for us to host THANKSGIVING for Sidonie's colleagues from school! This is Sam the Turkey ;)
Our second time hosting Thanksgiving was very different from the first time we hosted, but it was so much fun to share such a special day with Sidonie's colleagues!
Because of budget and time shortages, we had Christmas in Glinde. Our Christmas tree was VERY small, but cute none the less! ;)
We celebrated New Year's with some great friends from our church in Hamburg, the Wiesenbergs (Lili's parents ;)
In early 2009 we began attending a cell group at the Wiesenberg's. Such wonderful times of worship and sharing together!
In late spring we were able to work on a show together again! I was hired to direct a show for one of the English Language Theatres in HH, and I "hired" Sidonie to be my stage manager! We had an absolute blast working together again, and we had a super cast and a wonderful show to boot!
At the end of the spring semester, Sidonie got her job in "Buddy: The Buddy Holly Story" which meant we were leaving the school, and HH. She got to sing a song of her choice at the end of the year showcase, and tore it up with Blessed!
After leaving HH and before heading home to the States for the summer, we went to Bavaria and taught workshops for the musical theatre program that Sidonie had attended the previous summer! Bavaria is BEAUTIFUL!
...and catch up with all of our family! We were in Miami for Nana's birthday (Sidonie's Grandma) and got to go see her. She turned 97 and when we asked her if she knew how old she was she said: "hundred and something..."! We love you Nana, and we'll miss you until we see you again with Jesus!
We also got to meet many little ones who came into the world while we were in Deutschland! This is London - he was not interested in smiling for the camera although he did plenty of smiling when I wasn't taking a photo!
At the end of our wonderful, but short, trip home to the States, we came back to Essen in time for Sidonie to begin rehearsals for Buddy. I was on the job hunt again, and amidst all of that, we managed to decorate our apartment! I love decorating with you Sid!
We've treasured the moments we've had together since I've been on tour, and we have both learned to value one another even more than we previously did! For out two week Christmas break, we decided to take a vacation to London!
Neither of us had been to London, and we had an absolutely marvelous time relaxing, being together, and seeing lots of theatre! This is Sidonie with the London star of Sister Act: Patina Miller.
We also got to see many of the very cool London sights: behind Sidonie are the London Eye (Ferris Wheel), Big Ben, and Parliament!
At one of Sidonie's Buddy events, there was the possibility to dress up at have your picture taken "as Buddy!" Who could have resisted? ;)
Valentine's Day 2010. I got to come home for Valentine's Day this year which was a bit of a surprise! We had a great time at our favorite restaurant just being together!
Happy 4th anniversary, my Love! I look forward to spending many, many more years with you by my side. I'm so thankful for the gift of you! With all my love.
9 comments:
I love it, Ryan! And I love YOU! Happy Anniversary <3
What a great photo retrospective (complete with narrative)! Loved it! Many congratulations to both of you, both on the anniversary of your marriage, and on the many successes of your adventures!
This was great! Happy anniversary you two! We miss you!
Oh, I love this so much! I smiled, cried, and laughed out loud at some of the narratives and photos. I'm glad you did this for Sidonie and shared it with us! I love you both! Congratulations on your fourth anniversary!
Sorry to all my regular readers, but I've decided to start requiring approval for comments since I keep getting such strange comments from people I don't know! Hopefully they will get the idea and just stop commenting!!! ;D
You guys are the greatest! It was soooo fun reliving your life with you, and I even learned some stuff I didn't know about y'all!
WOW!! What a life!!
Loved reading and looking at the "snap Shot" of your married life these past 4 years!!!! I really enjoyed taking the tour :) Happy Anniversery to you and Sidone!!!! God Bless you both!
This is fabulous and wonderful and glorious and made me all teary!
Miss you guys!
xoxo!
I loved it! It made me cry straight from the beginning and even more so when it came to MADE. I miss it so much! I'm so glad Mrs. Edress made me audition for it! Thanks for the wonderful experience. :DD
MISS YOU!!!
Rachael ♥
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